Are Asian American guys underdogs in the dating world and a dying breed?

Now i’m speaking specifically about Asian American guys. Asian living in the United States. Are they becoming a dying breed? Are they also the underdogs. Everything is fine, except asian girls don’t find them attractive, and interracial marries that involves minority men with other races isn’t widely accepted. So where do they turn to? They say races should marry one another, but when their own counterparts or whatever aren’t interested in Asian guys, where does that leave the Asian guys? Are they true underdogs?

This is a load of rubbish. You guys are missing the point. Asian American men are highly selective when it comes to women, be it Asian, White, Black, or Latino. We have a certain way we like to do things, and that simply isn’t the way women like it. Honestly, we don’t care. Dating isn’t even close to the top of our priorities. We value our GPAs and overall contributions to a better world far more than those small things in life.

The main issue is that Asian men, particularly we Chinese, are difficult for people to read in general. The key to understanding us is that you cannot use body language to try to “read” what we’re thinking. That in itself can be disturbing to people. If you think you know what we’re thinking without actually hearing from us explicitly what we’re thinking, you have the wrong idea. Often people as me whether Asian men are attracted in partcular to white women. This statement cannot be more wrong. Asian men may look at women, but it’s with a sort of curiosity, not any form of attraction at all. We are most attracted to a good personality and high intelligence. For that, we have to know the girl before we ask them out. Hence, you rarely find us approaching girls without having known them thoroughly.

I don’t care what kinds of nonsense you’ve heard, but as a rule, if a girl doesn’t find an Asian man attractive, the Asian man probably doesn’t find the girl attractive either. Often, Asian girls who are raised in the US very easily adopt the American social etiquette. We Asian Americans do so as well, with the exception of the whole dating thing. If girls want to date us, they have to play by our rules, and we don’t even have the slightest sense that we are somehow a “dying breed” or losers or any sort. If that means we never get married, then it’s perfectly fine, we can draw happiness elsewhere. I’m not going to go around selecting one particular race to date. If you go by your logic, then Asian men should technically date no one. You stated that Asian women don’t like Asian men. If that is so, then no particular race of women are attracted to Asian men, and honestly, I don’t think Asian men are attracted to any particular race of women. It is the very few types of highly intelligent and NICE (keyword there, a lot of women are very b***hy and we absolutely despise that. For some reason, it seems to be socially accepted for women to be b***hy toward men, and it’s a total turnoff) women, regardless of race, that we would even consider dating.

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